• 25 Little Pieces Of Life Advice Every 20-Something Girl Needs To Hear Right Now

    2016/09/06 Kenneth 2 评论

生活过着过着,有时候我们也会遗忘了某些最重要的真理;忙着忙着,好像也不知道哪些事在这个当下才是最重要的;20几岁这个阶段不仅仅是从学生时期到进入职场的转换期,在面对家庭、朋友、爱情时也常会碰上重大改变,无论是面临父母亲老去、生病时的应对,还是朋友渐行渐远,亦或是在不得以的状况下结束一段感情,种种事情很可能都把你逼得喘不过气。

网路作家Kara Knickerbocker与正值20几岁的你分享25个此刻你会需要的人生小建议,或许你也会因此更知道自己该好好把握什麽,对未来也更有信心。

25 Little Pieces Of Life Advice Every 20-Something Girl Needs To Hear Right Now

1. You will actually miss nap time when you’re older. Milk it.
未来某天,你很可能会怀念起现在能睡午觉的日子。

2. Your parents are your biggest supporters. Treat time with them like the treasure it is.
你的父母親其實是你人生中最大的支柱,好好珍惜每一刻和他們相處的時光。

3. Quit wishing for happiness, create it.

4. Every second you spend wondering what someone else is thinking is a second lost.
每一秒你花在想别人怎麽想你的时间都是浪费。

5. Next time your mom cooks dinner, let her show you how.
下次当妈妈帮你煮晚餐时,记得把握机会让她教你怎麽做。(因为那很可能会是你一辈子怀念,但再也吃不到的好味道)

6. Just stop trying to sneak out- you get caught every time.
别再以为自己能躲过什麽,因为根据过往经验来看,你都还是得去做那些讨厌的事。

7. The more you chase boys, the more they elude you.
越是努力追求他人,通常他们就会越想避开你。

8. It will take a LOT of failed attempts before you find your way, don’t worry.
在你找到自己的方向前很可能会经历无数次的挫败,但那真的没关係。

9. Sometimes your accomplishments will not make other people happy.
你会发现,自己的成就并不总会让他人开心。

10. Crush those goals, anyway!
但无论别人怎麽想,你还是得跟随自己的心!

11. Remember when your brother bit his nails? Don’t try it. You won’t be able to stop.
别因为无聊就开始咬指甲,因为要再次戒掉比你想像的还难!

12. Never, ever stop writing.
永远都不要停止写字纪录的习惯。

13. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life. Learn to let them go.
不是每个人都应该留在你的生命中,学会放下他们吧。

14. Hot Pockets are not dinner. Neither are Reese’s Cups. (See #5.)
微波食物称不上是晚餐,巧克力更不是!

15. Start and keep a journal. Take pictures. Your memory is terrible.
开始替生活留下点记录,写字、拍照都行,因为你会发现自己的记忆力越来越差,有很多事如果忘了就再也想不起来了。

16. Drinking isn’t always fun.
喝酒不总是那麽有趣。

17. Those things you hate: taxes, bills, insurance? They’re frustrating, but important.
缴税、缴帐单、付保险费?那些你讨厌的事的确让人很心烦,但却有其重要性。

18. Learn to love yourself before you give so much love away to the wrong people.
在你把自己满满的爱付出给一个错的人之前,请先学会爱你自己。

19. Someone is always prettier/smarter/luckier. Stop comparing, you still have things they don’t.
永远都会有人比你更漂亮、更聪明、更幸运,所以从这一刻起停止比较吧。要知道,你其实也拥有别人渴望的东西。

20. Friendships ending can hurt worse than breakups. Despite everything, you’re worthy of the best love.
一段友情的结束很可能比分手更令人心痛,但无论事情如何,你要记住自己依然值得被爱。

21. Take that damn trip!
立刻去实践你一直想去的旅行!不要再拖了!

22. Stop spending so much money on stupid shit. Seriously.
不要再花那麽多钱在那些无聊、愚蠢的东西上了。说真的。

23. Start running. It will teach you more mentally & physically than you could ever know.
开始养成运动习惯,它会为你的身心灵都带来过去不曾有过的转变。

24. You are never too young or too old to change your life. Do what your heart wants.
想为生活带来改变时你永远不会太年轻/太老,做你真的想做的事就行。

25. You’re going to be just fine. Laugh it off or learn from it- it’s all going to be okay.
别担心,无论遇见什麽事情最后你会好好的。只要笑着面对挫折并从中学习,一切都会没事的。

English source : http://thoughtcatalog.com/kara-knickerbocker/2016/08/25-little-pieces-of-life-advice-every-20-something-girl-needs-to-hear-right-now/

Chinese source : http://www.adaymag.com/2016/09/05/life-advice-you-need-right-now.html

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